Thursday, April 23, 2009

LETS GET HAPPY by subra sahoo

KEYS TO HAPPINESS
• There are many ways for people to be unhappy, but happy people have common characteristics.
• A good way to be happy is to learn the common characteristics of happy people and apply them.

SECRETS OF HAPPY PEOPLE
1. Forget the past:
• There‘s nothing one can do about the past so one should better let them go and focus his energy on the present.
• One can never be happy if he carries the burden of the past.
2. Take responsibility for your life:
• The secret of happiness is freedom,and the secret of freedom,courage.
• To be happy you should have freedom and the most essential freedom is the freedom to choose.
• Freedom to choose requires the courage to take responsibility for your life. You shouldn’t blame someone else when something goes wrong.
3. Build Relationships:
• Relationships is where we can get true happiness in life.
• Through relationships we can love and be loved.
• Life‘s truest happiness is found in friendships we make along the way.

4. Develop Multiple Passions:
• The more passions and desires one has, the more ways one has of being happy.
• The key to expanding to new passions is curiosity. If you are curious, you will have an endless stream of exciting things waiting for you.

5. Build your character:
• When you are true to yourself and others, you will be in peace.
• The way to start building character is by making promises and keeping them.


6. Be who you are:
• You can only be happy if you become who you are.
• Don’t live other people’s life by trying to meet their expectations.

7.Live your life purpose:
• To have a fulfilling life, you should find your life purpose and follow it faithfully.

8. Count your blessings:
• Happiness will never come to those who fail to appreciate what they already have.
• Look at what you have and soon you will have plenty of reasons to be happy.

9. Have Positive mind:
• Happy People always believe that no matter how bad a situation seems, there is always something positive to take from it.


1 0. Work Creatively:
• Happiness lies in the joy of achievement and the thrill of creative effort.
• When you work creatively on something you will find happiness.

11. Start with what you have:
• Happy people learn to be happy with what they have.
• Be content with what you have and you will be happy.

12. Change:
• They must often change who would be constant in happiness or wisdom.
• Being happy requires you to constantly grow.
• The process of learning is essential for happiness.

13. Use your talents:
• Working in your talents is a sure way to enjoy your work because it’s something you are “hardwired” to do.
• Using your talents fully will make you even happier because of the satisfaction of doing your best.

14. Beware of small things:
• The happiness of most people is not ruined by great catastrophes or fatal errors, but by the repetition of slowly destructive little things.

15. Distill your ambitions:
• While wanting to achieve more in life is good, being obsessed by it is not.

16. Make others happy:
• Happiness is a perfume you cannot pour on others without getting a few drops on yourself.
• Happiness doesn’t come through selfishness but through selflessness.

17. Practice compassion:
• Compassion can make both others and you happy.
• Start with thinking about the people around you. Look at their needs and find ways to meet them.
• Even if you don’t do it out of compassion in the beginning, your compassion will grow over time.



CONCLUSION
• Happiness depends upon ourselves.
• Its you who decide whether or not you are happy in life.


subra sahoo

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